How to get a good wife or husband

I’ll be dropping all you should know to get a wonderful woman/man to marry.

First

you should know that God created and made everything perfect, so any thing that is not perfect is not of God, the woman should love and need the man and the man must do the same to her.Everyone has a particular person made for him or her and they should ideally need each other, today men are so desperate to the extent that they end up with the wrong spouse or mate.

Also people no longer seek to know the mind of God about who they intend to date, this kind may end up in heart breaks.

It’s God’s plan for a woman to be under a man, it’s God’s plan for a woman to move and heal the heart of man (remember the Bible called a woman a comforter to a man), it’s the will of God for a man to see the woman’s virtue and feel are girlish-ness, her submissive-ness and her fear and wick-ness.

It’s also the will of God for a man to care for and protect her.

Don’t show off to a woman to win her heart, what makes a relationship to last for ever is the heart to heart understanding between the couple, it’s the indept genuineness of the two couple to each other.

When I first met my wife, we were selfless and never wanted any thing for ourselves, our relationship happened naturally like we already know each other, She was girlish and soft, I saw a person that’s very unique and different from me. I loved her and she never scared me away, Our first meeting was welcoming and it was like we never had any personal casual relationship before them.

God works for us when we depend and trust in him, some of us don’t depend on God because we are selfish and want to do it by all means, if not this one, it’s not another. But at the end we end up wrongly.

(Cast all your cares on him) God know all you want, just depend on him and rest, and the best will always find you, remember what Jesus said about the birds of the air and how provisions are made for them. (Are they better than you? Who Christ died for!!!)

Patience and endurance have always been the road map to getting a soul mate for life, don’t kill your self just to win a woman’s or a man’s heart because it’s made to happen naturally.

Don’t approach a girl because you want to please people with her beauty, it’s simply arrogance and should not be seen among heart driven persons, the end of such relationship will be based on confusion, this is simply because hearts were not made up but minds was made up.

The doctrine of the mind will always deceive us, but the doctrine of the heart will not, remember that the heart is spirit but the mind is canal, we connect to God with our heart, while the mind always draw us to sin, our heart takes us to God and immortality.

Always tell your spouse the truth about your self, always remain humble to her and your self, by doing this you’ll know who really will stay with you in good and hard times alike.

Addiction of any form (drinking, smoking, masturbation, porn, inordinates, gambling etc) should not be seen in your relationships, nothing kills love, affections and genuine relationship like addiction, when you are addicted you’ll always have a negative view of reality and this definitely will affect your Gods given affections.

Avoid selfishness of any form and be true to your self, work hard for what you’ll eat and also give to others, enjoy nature and most times talk to God about your desires.

Love is something that should come naturally, it’s not forced or framed, it’s a blessing from God and it happens to everyone it’s something that is not done for the environment rather it’s something that the individuals who are involved desires for themselve.

When I first held my wife, her indept quietness and submission was a lot of rekindling, I saw womanhood in her and it gave me the grace I need to function properly my duty as a man.